段貞夙  老師 (Susan)

 
Why  個案心得及老師解析
 

* New! 阿卡西紀錄解讀:找到中年時期的人生新方向
Akashic Record Reading: Found The New Life Direction in The Middle Age
2020.08
* New! 不斷重複的感情模式與創傷
Repeated Patterns and Trauma about Love
2020.06
* New! 阿卡西紀錄解讀:找到人生啟航的方向
Akashic Record Reading: Finding The Setting Sail Direction Of Life 2020.04
* New! 非常害怕在公開場合說話
Fear to Speak in Public
 
2020.02
* 解決情感關係的內心阻礙
Resolve The Inner Obstacles of Emotional Relationships
2019.11
* 阿卡西紀錄解讀:解開人生與職涯卡住的結
Akashic Record Reading:
Untie the Knot of Life and Career
2019.8
* 找到人生動力與方向
Get the Motivation and Direction of life " 
2019.7
* 自我防衛帶來了逃避以及莫名不安
Self Defense Brings the Escaping and the Unknown Anxiety. 
2019.4
* 阿卡西記錄解讀:解決自卑情結 
Akashic Record Reading : Get Rid of Inferiority Complex 
2019.1
* 焦慮與抗拒成為一個照顧他人的角色 
Being Anxious and Resisting to Become the Role of Taking Care of Others 
2018.11
* 莫名的潔癖恐慌 
Inexplicable Panic of Fearing to Be Dirty 
2018.4
* 憂鬱症 
Depression 
2018.1
* 童年匱乏愛,導致偏差的愛情及人生方式 2017.7
* 焦慮沮喪 2017.7
* 恐慌症 2017.1
* 煩惱於教養孩子及創業工作
* 內在能量依賴沒長大,導致的情感與人際痛苦
* 恐懼、不敢表達、選擇及承擔---修正負面模式習氣 
* 工作及人生茫然無方向
* 憂鬱症,缺乏動力,易怒
* 情感挫敗不斷重覆
* 人際恐懼、自我封閉
* 既逃避與競爭的矛盾性格
* 暴食及人際上的不開心
* 憂鬱症,人際退縮
* 身心症狀、心悸、恐慌症
* 婆媳夫妻親子關係緊張與憤怒
* 缺乏自信,不敢承擔,甲狀腺機能亢進
* 習於逃避,婚姻不順遂
* 暴食與購物狂之成癮

 
 

*New!不斷重複的感情模式與創傷
Repeated Patterns and Trauma about Love

終於可以幸福了
Finally, Be Able to Be Happy
                                        

玩童 (Play Kid) 撰
 

今天完成了整個處理,踏出諮詢室門口,心情是非常愉悅的!
在此之前做潛意識處理兩三次,這次來之前,剛經歷了一段感情的第三次復合,然後在國外開心相聚,回國後,又突然被對方提出分手,我壓抑著心痛的感覺,來到諮詢室的我的淚水又潰堤了,段老師說這或許是件好事,是宇宙幫忙我看清楚。 我半年前,首先來找老師幫我做了一次阿卡西紀錄解讀,處理這段感情問題,後來我覺得自己內心一定是有甚麼,才會一直走不出來。所以半年後我來做潛意識處理,老師從我的描述及諮詢內容,知道對方有很大的親密關係恐懼,以及他向來逃避面對或談到他的人生及未來,他曾跟我說過,他只想過一天算一天,如果要他對我承諾一個關係,對他是很大的壓力,所以我知道,要與他有未來是不可能的。

After completing the whole processes and stepping out of the consulting room, I felt happy very much. 
I dealt with subconscious two to three times before this time, before this time, I just experienced the third times reunion of a romantic relationship, and then we happily met abroad. After returning home, he suddenly broke up with me, I suppressed the feeling of heartache for a while, and my tears poured again in the consulting room, Teacher Duan said that this might be a good thing, it was Universe help me to see clearly.
Six months ago, at first, I requested the teacher to read my Akashic record and deal with this emotional problem. I felt that there must be something wrong in my heart so I could not get out of the situation.  Half a year later, I came to deal with my subconscious. From my description and consulting content, the teacher knew that he had a great fear for intimacy relationship, and he always avoided to face or mention his life and future, he once told me that he only wanted to count day after day, if he was asked to commit a relationship with me, it would be very stressful to him, so I knew it was impossible to have a future with him.


我與他兩人聊天相聚時當然相愛熱戀,但是無法談到未來,讓我的內心感到不安,畢竟我的內心深處還是渴望有家庭伴侶的生活。自己年輕時人生的夢想就是結婚,擁有自己的家庭與人生伴侶,但是也因為非常執著於這件事,所以在過往交往的幾位對象中,雖然後來心裡都知道對方人格上有重大問題,例如情緒起伏極大,自己仍會委屈求全地跟對方在一起,目的是想結婚,結果我浪費了數年時間。另外一種狀態很諷刺的是,在之前,曾有位想跟我結婚的男友,但後來我發現這個人是我不愛也無法共同生活的人。覺得宇宙好像在跟我開玩笑,始終無法讓我得到我想要的!

Of course, when I chatted with him, we fell in love with each other, but I could not talk about our future, the situation made me uneasy. After all, I still longed for a life with a family partner. When I was young, my dream of life was to get married, to have my own family and life partner. I was very attached to this matter, so in my past several relationships, even though later I knew that there were major problems in their personality, such as extreme emotional ups and downs, I was still aggrieved to spend time with them, because my purpose was to get married, then it wasted many years. Another state of irony is that there had ever been a boyfriend who proposed to marry me, but later I found that I did not love him and did not want to live with him. It feels like Universe always made joke with me, and I could not get what I want!


經過前幾次潛意識處理,解決了我從原生家庭帶來的一些焦慮,於是這一次,我比較有力量去面對現在這再一次的分手,但是我對於自己來到地球的人生目的有極大困惑?感情路非常不順遂,而想要的只是很簡單的感情婚姻家庭,有個伴侶,但為什麼卻是如此之難啊。
於是,老師帶我經歷一段「靈魂的人生目的」的潛意識探索。在潛意識狀態裡,我回到小時候,一次捏泥娃娃的玩耍經驗裡,透過老師的引導,我體會到我自己其實就可以創造我想過的生活,而且是理智的選擇,合則來不合則去,可以開口大笑的生活!做完後,我疑惑我的人生目的怎麼這麼簡單,而且沒有目的性?只要開心地過生活?不是應該是感情修煉是我這世的課題嗎?老師回答我說,不要輕看這個人生目的,要能真正開心過日子,並不是件簡單的事情。

Through several times of subconscious processes, I solved some anxiety which was brought from my original family, so at this time I have more power to face the current breakup again, but I have great confusion about my purpose of coming to earth. My love path is very unsuccessful, I think that all I want is just a simple marriage and family with a partner, but why is so difficult?
So, the teacher took me through a subconscious exploration of "my soul's purpose in this lifetime". In the subconscious state, I came back to my childhood, I was a child and played with a clay doll, in the process through the teacher’s guiding, I realized that I can actually create the life which I want, and it is a rational choice and I can laugh happily! After completing, I wondered why my purpose of this lifetime was so simple, and it seemed to with no purpose, just live happily? Should not the love affair be my life issue? The teacher replied to me that do not underestimate the life purpose, it is not a simple matter to make a true happy life.


想想是的,回憶我過去感情路,一路艱辛,雖有短暫開心時刻,但終究無法完成自己想要的夢想----結婚。不開心的時刻多於開心時刻,沒錯,要讓自己擁有真正打從內心深處生起的喜悅與平靜,是不簡單的。
做完這段潛意識處理後,自己好像解脫了枷鎖,我感覺到從今以後,我可以決定自己的一切,每天醒過來要開心度過每天,雖然仍然不放棄遇到伴侶的這個夢想,但是更能以開放的心態與心情,接受宇宙給予我的一切,因為當我做完這段潛意識處理,對我的課題及生命目的有所領悟後,我覺得,就算今天我就離開這個地球,一點也沒有遺憾,沒有結婚也無所謂,即使這樣離開也滿足了。現在的我,對於未來感到興奮與期待,要挑戰更多自己曾經以為一個人無法達成的目標,實踐在潛意識處理過程中學到的,持續對宇宙發送我的意念,鍛鍊心智,靈魂成長,超越永恆。

Actual yes! Recalling my past love relationship journey, the processes were full of hardship. Although there were short happy moments, but after all, I could not achieve the dream----getting married. There were more unhappy moments than happy moments, yes, it is not easy to let yourself have the joy and calmness that really comes from the depths of your heart. 
After dealing with the subconscious, I seemed to be free from the shackles. I feel that from now on, I can decide everything about myself and wake up every day to spend my life happy. Although I still do not give up the dream of encountering my life partner, I am more able with an open mind and mood, accept everything Universe gives me, because after understanding my lesson and life purpose from this subconscious exploration, I feel that even if I left this earth today, there is no regret. No marriage does not matter, even now leaving, I feel satisfied. Now, I am excited and looking forward to the future, I want to challenge more goals which I had ever thought that I could not achieve by myself, I want to practice what I have learned in the subconscious process, and continue to send my thoughts to Universe, exercise my mind, grow my soul, and transcend eternity.


*段老師的話(Teacher Duan's Words)

玩童 之前來找我時,因為工作不便安排時間,先進行阿卡西紀錄解讀,當時他來的原因,是因為與一男子分分合合兩次,她覺得兩人情投意合,但因為對方性格上確實有著重大狀況,常做出讓她十分吃驚且措手不及的分手舉動,令她非常傷心。當時做完了阿卡西紀錄解讀,雖然她從中得到了些明白,但是我從我做潛意識工作多年的經驗,我知道其實她的內在有著對情感的過度渴望與嚮往,才會造成她一直在尋愛的過程裡,無法看清楚許多對方嚴重的狀況。

When "Play Kid" came to me at the first time, it was inconvenience to take time to deal with subconscious session because of her working time, we only read her Akashic record. The reason why she came to me was breaking up and reconciliation with a man twice, she felt that they were in love with each other, but because the other person's personality was with some kind of problems, then often made a sudden and unexpected breakup that shocked her very much, she felt very sad. 
At that time, after completing the Akashic record reading, although she got some understanding from it, from my years knowing of subconscious work, I knew deeply that in fact, she had an excessive desire and longing for romantic relationship, which would cause her to be hard to see clearly many serious situations in love relationships. 


通常這是因為個案自身在成長過程中,因為某些可能來自原生家庭內部的壓力,或者愛的匱乏,造成了打從童年就將焦點注意力一直投注在外界,期待從外界得到愛或關注,當這樣的焦點形成了慣性,就逐漸忽略了給予自己愛、滋養自我。於是成年後,就演變為過度渴望從感情關係得到所有過去曾經缺乏的愛與注意力,然而這樣的自身狀態,也往往容易吸引到類似的對象,可以想像當兩個人都是不斷只想從對方那裏得到愛,而非給予愛或是承諾(意味著承擔責任),如此想要能夠愛得長久與幸福,確屬不易。因為真正和諧對等的伴侶關係,是首先需要兩個人都擁有獨立、愛自己的能量,才可能互相給予對方穩定、滋養的愛。如果我們希望玩童能擁有這樣的能力,不論情愛關係如何地起伏,她仍能有自我內在力量好好地活著,我認為是需要進入潛意識做生命全盤的重整及療癒。

Usually this is because the clients in their growing processes got some pressure from the original family, or lacked of love, which caused they focused on the outside world since the childhood and looked forward to getting love or attention from the outside world. When it became some kinds of habit, they would neglect to self-love and nurture themselves. So, in adulthood, it would have evolved into an excessive desire to get all the love and attentions which was lacked in the childhood from the romantic relationship. However, this kind of self-state is often easy to attract similar persons. It can be imagined that when two people only want to get love from each other, rather than giving love or commitment ( it means taking responsibility for each other), it is really not easy to expect the love can last for a long term and get happy. Because a truly harmonious and equal love relationship requires that firstly, two people to have the energy of independence and love themselves, then they could have the ability to give each other stable and nourishing love. If we hope "Play Kid" own the ability that no matter how ups and downs the love relationship is, she can still have the inner strength to live well, I think it is necessary to enter her subconscious to make a complete reorganization of life and healing.


從諮詢經驗裡,我認為,想要擁有長久且穩定的愛情,兩個人願意以開放的心態,面對各自內在的問題 (例如恐懼、強烈的自我、缺乏自信),並且承諾陪伴對方去處理與一同成長,是不可或缺的。

From my consulting experiences, I think If we want to have a long-term and stable love, it is indispensable that two people are willing to face their own inner problems (e.g. fear, intense ego, or lack of self-confidence) with an open mind and promise to accompany each other to deal with their problems and grow together.


她最後一次來找我的時候,她剛經歷了第三次復合與分手,雖然難過,但是之前的潛意識處理帶給她的力量已然產生,因此可以有內在力量讓她面對並看清這段關係的樣貌。
最後,我幫他做了一段潛意識探索,讓他明白他此生靈魂目的,她一始對於答案是「好好地用自己的力量來選擇、決定,帶給自己開心的人生」,她感到很困惑,怎麼這麼簡單,我認真告訴她,這一點都不簡單,那可得把我們在潛意識智慧裡學到的東西,紮實建立並且熟練好,才可能達到的啊。每個生命來這世界的目的都不盡相同,不需要覺得誰的目的如何偉大,我的目的怎麼才這樣,就像每個人在學習任何知識或技能,都有各自的長處短處,每個人所處的學習階段也不同。在我們有機會認識自己此生該學習的課題及生命目的之後,就好好去享受這樣的實踐過程吧。
看到玩童能夠開心地離開諮詢室,不再困在過往多年不斷重複的那有關愛的模式及創傷裡,真是為她開心。玩童,要記得那個泥娃娃喔。

Her last time coming to me, she just went through the third times breakup. She was sad, but the power had already generated from the previous subconscious processing, so she had the inner strength to face the chaos and saw what this relationship looked like.
Finally, I helped her to do a subconscious exploration to help her understand her life purpose in this lifetime. At the beginning, she was very confused that the answer was "to take her own inner power to choose, decide, and bring her a happy life." She said why so simple it is, I told her seriously that this is not simple, it can only be achieved by firmly building and being proficient in what we have learned in our subconscious wisdom. Every person comes to this world with different purposes. You don’t need to think whose purpose is great, why my purpose is not great, just like when everyone learns any knowledge or skill, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and everyone’s learning phase is also different. After having the opportunity to realize the lessons and life purpose we should learn in this lifetime, then just please enjoy this practicing process. 
When I saw that "Play Kid" leaving the consulting room happily, she was no longer trapped in the old patterns or trauma about love that had been repeated for many years, I was happy for her. 
"Play Kid", please remember that clay doll.

 

 

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