段貞夙  老師 (Susan)

 
Why  個案心得及老師解析
 

* New! 阿卡西紀錄:療癒自卑與恐懼
Akashic Record:The Healing Of The Inferiority Complex And Fear 
2021.04
* New! 透過潛意識處理,疾病變成了她的生命導師
The Disease Became Her Life Mentor Through The Subconscious Processing
2021.02
* New! 阿卡西紀錄(解讀動物):瞭解我的寵物貓怎麼了
Akashic Record (Reading The Animal): Realize What Happened To My Cat
 2021.01
* New! 讓人生重新開機--潛意識裡來自原生家庭的制約與影響
Let My Life Restart-- The Constraints And Influences From The Primary Family In The Subconsciousness 
2020.11
* New! 阿卡西紀錄解讀:找到中年時期的人生新方向
Akashic Record Reading: Found The New Life Direction In The Middle Age
2020.08
* 不斷重複的感情模式與創傷
Repeated Patterns and Trauma About Love
2020.06
* 阿卡西紀錄解讀:找尋人生啟航的方向
Akashic Record Reading:  Search For The Setting Sail Direction Of Life 2020.04
* 害怕在公開場合說話
Fear To Speak In Public
 
2020.02
* 解決情感關係的內心阻礙
Resolve The Inner Obstacles Of Emotional Relationships
2019.11
* 阿卡西紀錄解讀:解開人生與職涯卡住的結
Akashic Record Reading: Untie the Knot Of Life And Career
2019.8
* 找到人生動力與方向
Got The Motivation And Direction Of life 
2019.7
* 自我防衛帶來了逃避以及莫名不安
Self Defense Brings The Escaping And The Unknown Anxiety 
2019.4
* 阿卡西記錄解讀:解決自卑情結 
Akashic Record Reading : Get Rid Of Inferiority Complex 
2019.1
* 焦慮與抗拒成為一個照顧他人的角色 
Being Anxious And Resisting To Become The Role Of Taking Care Of Others 
2018.11
* 莫名的潔癖恐慌 
Inexplicable Panic Of Fearing To Be Dirty 
2018.4
* 憂鬱症 
Depression 
2018.1
* 童年匱乏愛,導致偏差的愛情及人生方式 2017.7
* 焦慮沮喪 2017.7
* 恐慌症 2017.1
* 煩惱於教養孩子及創業工作
* 內在能量依賴沒長大,導致的情感與人際痛苦
* 恐懼、不敢表達、選擇及承擔---修正負面模式習氣 
* 工作及人生茫然無方向
* 憂鬱症,缺乏動力,易怒
* 情感挫敗不斷重覆
* 人際恐懼、自我封閉
* 既逃避與競爭的矛盾性格
* 暴食及人際上的不開心
* 憂鬱症,人際退縮
* 身心症狀、心悸、恐慌症
* 婆媳夫妻親子關係緊張與憤怒
* 缺乏自信,不敢承擔,甲狀腺機能亢進
* 習於逃避,婚姻不順遂
* 暴食與購物狂之成癮

 
 

*New! 透過潛意識處理,疾病變成了她的生命導師
The Disease Became Her Life Mentor Through The Subconscious Processing

乳癌帶領姊姊來療癒內心創傷
The Breast Cancer Led My Sister
To Heal Her Inner Trauma 


Mia 撰

姐姐在去年(2020年) 5月時被醫生告知左側乳房長了不好的東西,經過一個月一連串的檢查,在6月時診斷出來的結果已是癌末,癌細胞也擴散至大腿部份的骨頭。當姐姐告訴我這個結果時,對我有如晴天霹靂般的震撼,但一時間還要在她面前故作鎮定和堅強,因為怕她難過甚至支撐不住,所以我一直忍到回家後才崩潰大哭。

My elder sister was told by the doctor that something bad had grown on the left breast in May of this year (2020). After a series of checks for a month, it was diagnosed in June that the cancer was at last stage and the cancer cells also spread to the thigh bone. When my sister told me this result, I was so shocked. But I had to pretend to be calm and strong in front of her. Because I was afraid that she would be sad or even unable to handle it, I kept it up. I crumbled and cried after going home.

在家人眼中,姐姐一直是個開朗的B型人,永遠有說不完的話和製造的“笑果”,而且長期以來她的身體一直都很好,非常少生病,其他病症更是沒有過,也一直有接受中醫的調養保健;所以對於這樣的檢查結果,真的很令人意外,我不敢接受也不想接受這樣的事實。由於爸媽的年紀都大了,為了不讓老人家擔心,經過我們三個姐弟討論後決定先一起隱瞞姐姐生病的事。但更重要的事是—姐姐得要好起來,不然怎麼跟爸媽交代?後來也和姐姐討論一些除了接受西醫化療、放療、手術之外,我們還可以做什麼來挽救健康? 


In the eyes of the family, she had always been a cheerful person with blood type B, always had endless words and made laugh. She had been in good health for a long time and never had other diseases, and constantly received Chinese medicine treatments for health care so the situation really shocked me. I did not dare and want to accept the fact, because my parents were getting older, in order not to make our parents worry, after discussions with our sisters and brothers, we decided not to tell them my sister’s illness. However, the premise was that my sister must be cured and recovered, otherwise how could we explain to our parents? We discussed about what else we could do to help the physical health besides receiving western medicine chemotherapy, radiotherapy, and surgery?

多數人其實是不了解潛意識療癒這方面的事情,所以也不容易接受、甚至不覺得有必要。由於自己之前來找段老師作潛意識處理,後來又跟著段老師學習自我覺知相關課程已經七年了,深知所有的疾病都與自己內心沒解決的情緒壓力有關。

Most people do not understand subconscious course, so it is not easy to accept or feel it necessary for them. Since I had ever found Teacher Duan to deal with my subconscious and then learned the courses about self-awareness from Teacher Duan for seven years, I deep know that all diseases are related to our inner emotional pressure being not resolved.

姐姐從2020年7月中開始進行化療,掉髮、身體疲憊的狀況皆出現了,因為我擔心姐姐的身體會每況愈下,到時連接受潛意識諮詢的機會都沒了,我心裡十分焦急,所以不斷地與姐姐溝通觀念,也依老師的建議,我請姐姐到歐蘭朵官網做些了解,到了9月,姐姐終於願意嘗試這樣的方式。很感謝老師在已滿檔的諮詢時間裡,願意協助來進行這樣的"急件處理",整個課程的安排還貼心地配合姊姊的身體狀況(因為化療後,她的身體會虛弱地沒法進行任何事情)。12月的某一天,姐姐告訴我,她已完成了潛意識諮詢。

My sister started chemotherapy in mid-July, and her hair loss and physical exhaustion appeared. I worried that her energy was getting weaker to lose the opportunity of receiving the subconscious consultation. With such anxiety, I kept communicating with my sister about subconscious consultation, according to Teacher Duan’s suggestion, I requested my sister to read Orlando official website to understand more about it. In September, my sister was finally willing to try the subconscious consultation. I am grateful very much to the Teacher for being willing to assist such a "urgent client" during the full consultation schedule, and all my sister’s subconscious course schedule was arranged kindly to match with her physical situation and chemotherapy schedule (after chemotherapy, she would feel too weak to do anything.) One day in December, my sister told me that she had completed the subconscious consultation.

還記得姐姐剛開始進行化療時,每次出院後的一週內,都會疲憊的一直昏睡,醒不過來,連眼睛也張不開;然而在姐姐進行潛意識諮詢的這段日子直到現在,我發現她心情又開朗起來,且精神越來越好;最近,姐姐持續去看診的中醫師也說,從姐姐的脈象上可以看出心情變好了,這樣身體的病也就容易治療了。姊姊自己也說,整個人開朗起來,變得開心了。

I still remember that when my sister first started chemotherapy, every time she came back home from the hospital, she would be exhausted and sleepy, unable to wake up, even her eyes could not be opened for a week. However, during the period of receiving subconscious consultation till now, I feel that she gets cheerful again and is getting more and more energetic. Recently her Chinese medicine doctor also said that her pulse revealed her emotion has been improved recently, so that the illness could get cured easier. And my sister also says that she feels cheerful and happy.


現在的姐姐,在公司時(我們是家族公司),看到其他家人在批評別人、或煩惱或抱怨時,她便能看懂眾人的內心狀況,也能運用上在潛意識處理中學到的方式去面對。同時姐姐也看懂了和她的先生之間相處的模式是從我們父母那裡複製來的,因為父親的強勢以及情緒化,母親和我們這些孩子們總是帶著不安全感和恐懼在生活,深怕自己又做錯什麼事而令對方生氣;被罵了,心裡有話都不敢說;也害怕衝突,母親的生活中充滿著這種不平衡與憤怒 (只能對孩子們抱怨),姊姊不知不覺地複製了母親的模式,只是她從不曾覺得有什麼問題,直到這次生病,她因為想知道自己為什麼有甚麼情緒壓力造成自己生病了,找了老師做處理,才明白。如今經過老師的協助,她已逐漸能明白自己的創傷是如何形成與呈現,也得到了療癒,以及學到了因應這類情況的方式。

Now in the company (it is a family company) when other family members criticize others, or worry and complain, my sister is able to understand their mental situation and also applies the method learned from the subconscious course to deal with it. At the same time, she also understands the pattern of getting along with her husband was copied from our parents. Because our father was demanding and moody, our mother always lived with insecurity and fear, always afraid of doing something wrong again to make our father get angry. Even if being scolded, she would not dare to express the inner feeling and feared to face conflict. Our mother's life was full of unbalance and anger (Only what she could do was complaining to us, her children.) Copied our mother’s pattern unconsciously, my sister never felt anything wrong until this time she would like to understand what mental pressure made her get disease, then requested the Teacher and got realized. Now with the assistance of the Teacher, she has gradually been able to understand how the trauma formed and appeared, then also gotten healed and learned the way to respond the same situation.

昨天下班時,因公司有些工作有點來不及完成,我問她要不要帶回去做?她說"不要,要回家休息了",接著又說:老師說,我現在什麼事都不用管,只要把自己身體給養好,其它事都不關我的事。?聽完後我和她相視而哈哈大笑…..。

When getting off work yesterday, because her some work in the company was too late to complete, I asked her if she would take it back to home to finish it. She said "No, I am going home and rest", and then said” The Teacher said, I should not worry about anything, now all I need to do is taking care of myself, everything else is none of my business. "After listening, we looked at each other and laughed.


非常非常感恩老師給予姐姐的幫助,鬆動了她僵化的內在,幫她點了一盞心燈,照亮她不曾看到的地方,現在她開始懂得愛自己了,不管姐姐後續狀況如何,感恩老師幫她開啟了一扇窗,讓她因能自由的呼吸而感受到愛....謝謝老師。

I am grateful very much for the Teacher's helping to untie her rigid mind and light up a place in her heart which she has never seen before. Now my sister really learned how to love herself. No matter what will happen to my sister in the future I am appreciate to the Teacher for helping her open a window to let her feel love because she could breathe freely. Thank you, the Teacher.


*後記---Mia的姐姐口述:

            做了潛意識諮詢,才知道原來我心理上受到童年父母的影響很大,所以在二十幾年的婚姻裡,常常很多話都悶在心裡不說出來,因為總覺得說出來就會吵架,但其實當我壓抑我真實的感受與想法在心裡,只會令我自己更生氣,然後又惡性循環。做了潛意識處理,和先生相處,用上老師教的方法,覺得開始可以自在自然地表達我的感受和想法,結果我先生也就知道我在意甚麼,也開始有改變了,現在我的心情開朗很多,夫妻相處也變得融洽了,奇妙的是,我感覺我先生好像也不再像之前那樣易怒生氣了。
            此外,在我生病的期間,我的體重本來一直往下掉,體力也不行,但這兩個月,心情變開朗之後,體重也逐漸恢復了,我的中醫師把脈竟然也說,你的心情變好,這樣就方便治病了。

*Postscript --- From Mia’s sister:

           After subconscious consultation, I realized that I was psychologically affected by my parents in my
childhood. So, in my marriage for more than 20 years, I often hid a lot of things in my heart and did not
say it out, because I always felt that I would quarrel with my husband if I expressed it. In fact, when depressing my true feelings and thought, I got much angrier, and then went into a vicious circle. After doing subconscious processing, I got along with my husband with the methods taught by the Teacher, I felt that I could express my feelings and thoughts naturally, as a result, my husband also knew what I cared about and started to change. Now my mood is much more cheerful, I and my husband could get along harmoniously with each other, and it is amazing that I feel that my husband is also no more as irritable as before. 
          Moreover, during the period of sickness my weight has been falling, and my energy became weak, but in these two months, after my mood becoming brighter, my weight also gradually recovered. By taking my pulse diagnostically My Chinese medicine doctor found that now my mood got better and said it would be helpful for my physical treatment.
 




段老師的話:(Teacher Duan’s Words)

遇上了任何身體疾病,當然要去找相關領域的專業醫生做適當的診治,但是如果能夠同步對於身體症狀或疾病背後,屬於心理的層次,也進行探索發現,進而找到心理上的壓力或情緒源頭,如此若能得到處理與療癒,絕對會對身體症狀或疾病的治療,起上正面的反饋與助益。從上面的文章裡,可以看到Mia的姐姐就是一個這樣的實例。在諮詢室裡,我遇到過不少類似這樣的個案,屢屢證明身心靈是相關聯的,身體生病應該是相應有著甚麼樣未解決的心理課題,無形的壓力與情緒糾結一旦長久未得到解決,就往往會顯化為有形的身體疾病。

When encountering any physical illness, of course we must find a professional physical doctor in the relevant field for proper diagnosis and treatment, if we could also explore and discover the mental pressure or emotions on the mental level behind the physical symptoms or illness, then heal them, it will feedback positively and help to the treatment of physical symptoms or diseases. From the above article, we could see that Mia's sister is such an example. In my consultation room, I have encountered many cases like this. It has been proved that our body and mind and spirit are related, and what kind of unresolved mental problems should be related to the illness of the body. When the invisible pressure and emotional knots which are not resolved in a long term, they often manifest to tangible physical diseases.

其實,Mia的姐姐在這之前是沒有上述這樣觀念的,幸運的是,Mia鍥而不捨地想方設法,如她所言,因為她從多年前來這裡做潛意識處理而得到正面改變,到後來繼續在我這裡上課學習身心靈課程,她想這時候自己能幫助姊姊的,就是怎麼引導姊姊願意來到諮詢室,去找到生病的心理原因,解決它、療癒它,如此一定會對身體有幫助,憑著這樣的認知信念以及對姐姐的手足之愛, Mia終於帶著姊姊來了,我還記得當時見到Mia的姐姐,病容滿面,我唯一擔憂的是,只是單憑著妹妹的勸說,她自己是否有足夠的認知與心理準備來面對與探索內心呢?

In fact, Mia’s elder sister did not have the above-mentioned concept before. Fortunately, Mia persevered figuring out, as she said, because she got a positive change from coming here many years ago to do subconscious processing, and she continues to learn something from me about the body, mind, and soul. She thought that what she could help her sister at this time was how to guide her to come to the consultation room to find the mental cause of the physical illness, to resolve and heal it, which would help the body. With this kind of cognition and faith and love for her sister, Mia finally took her sister to come here, I still remembered when I met Mia's sister at that time, she was sick seriously. My only concern was whether Mia’s sister had enough cognition and mental preparation to face and explore her heart only by Mia’s persuasion.

因為在我過去的經驗裡發現,通常被家人親情勸說來的個案朋友,多半是礙於給家人一個面子來的,對於要敞開內心去面對,或說打從心底願意學習、改變,其實並沒真的準備好,也就是說沒有全盤面對的決心,但是做潛意識處理,一如我在官網裡有關潛意識處理的介紹裡寫著「適用對象:面對自身的問題與困境,有全盤面對的強烈決心,不問做不做得到,只一個念頭:我想改變、我不想再這樣了。」

Because in my past client-experiences, I found that usually the clients being persuaded by the family’s affection were mostly not with the true motivation for healing, and they were not ready to open their hearts to face it, or to be willing to learn and change from their hearts, it meant that they did not have the determination to face it all. However, to do subconscious processing, just as I wrote in the introduction of subconscious processing on the official website, "Suitable for : With  intense determination to face totally your own problems and predicaments, regardless of whether we could achieve or not, just with only one thought: I want to change, and I do not want to trap in such a predicament anymore.”

還記得第一次會談時,Mia的姊姊數次沮喪不平地說,我真不明白我為什麼會得這個病。在會談過程中,我大概已經知道她的內在壓力模式應該源自於原生家庭中的恐懼及壓抑,在後續的潛意識處理中,確實也發現是這些壓力與憤怒,逐漸成為身體不健康的因素之一。在原生家庭裡形成的性格模式,後來繼續被帶到她婚後的家庭,面對和先生意見相違時,她反射性地壓抑不溝通,結果只是更惡性循環造成了與先生之間的不愉快,於是,她心中的情感創傷從父親到先生,從原生家庭到婚後家庭,近五十年的負面情緒壓抑到後來,不斷地累積,變成像是水管裡長期泥沙瘀滯阻塞,阻擋了水流,表現在身體上,就是形成了不通暢的狀態,所在乳房之處,確實就在關於情緒能量的心輪區域(我教授過多年的「從潛意識看脈輪能量」)。

I still remember that during the first meeting, Mia’s sister said frustratedly several times that I really did not understand why I got this disease. During the meeting, I probably knew that her internal stress pattern should originate from the fear and depression in her primary family. In the subsequent subconscious processing, I did find that these stress and anger had gradually become one of the factors of unhealthy body. The personality pattern formed in her primary family was later brought to her married family. When facing with a disagreement with her husband, she reflexively suppressed and did not communicate with her husband. The result was a more vicious circle that caused unhappiness between her and her husband. As a result, the emotional trauma pattern brought in her heart from her father to her husband, from the primary family to the married family, the negative emotions that had been suppressed for about 50 years accumulated continuously and became like some kinds of long-term sedimentation and blockage in the water pipe to block the water flow. When being manifested in the body, it formed a state of impediment in the breast where was indeed the region of heart chakra related to the emotional energy (I have taught "The Subconscious Language of Chakra Energy " for many years).

所幸,Mia的姊姊是願意百分百地敞開心來面對這些潛意識中的真相,並且一次次在潛意識處理後,她都非常用功照做我給的潛意識功課,之後她再來的時候,我發現她的臉上開始出現了自然的笑容,並且聽到她說,我現在可以對先生自然地表達,夫妻可以有效地溝通了,情感也跟著變融洽了。相對之前,太太壓抑不說,生悶氣,夫妻倆一直以負面情緒影響彼此,要嘛冷漠不說話,不然就是累積到爆炸吵架,然而當只剩下情緒噴發的爭吵時,也不可能聽得到對方的真正需要。

Fortunately, Mia’s sister was willing to open up 100 percent to face these subconscious truths, and after subconscious processing, she really did the subconscious homework with efforts. Later when she came here in the following process, I found there appeared the natural smile on her face, and she said that she began to be able to express herself to her husband naturally, we could communicate effectively and became harmonious. Compared to before, the wife was depressed and kept sulking, the couple have been influencing each other with negative emotions, either being indifferent and not talking, or accumulating the anger to an explosive quarrel, however, if only emotional quarrels, it was impossible to hear what the real needs of one another.

Mia姐姐做完潛意識處理後,繼續在我這裡接受頌?的能量調理,有一次她說,老師,好神奇喔,現在我先生的脾氣也跟著變好了。我笑說,當然啦,因為你內在創傷療癒了,可以自然地表達,不像以前是帶著負面情緒在說話,當先生聽到的都是指責與不悅,他也只能言語反擊你,如今你自然地改變了,他一定也會放下防衛(不是勉強裝溫柔,任何勉強都反而會令對方反感)。

After Sister Mia completed the subconscious processing, she continued to receive the energetic adjustment through the singing bowl here. Once she said, Teacher, it was amazing, now my husband’s temper has also improved. I said with a smile, of course, because of your inner trauma was healed and could expressed naturally, unlike in the past time when talking with negative emotions, what your husband heard were all accusations and dissatisfaction, so what he could do was only verbally fight against you. Now you have naturally changed, so he will also put down his defense (not reluctantly pretend to be tender, any reluctant act would make one anther feel bad).

在這裡,我和Mia一起以這篇文章,深深祝福Mia的姐姐,身體早日康復痊癒。這場病,原來是場災難,但因為她願意面對潛意識的真相,於是這場病變成了她人生的導師,她從中學會了屬於她的功課,從一次次潛意識處理結束後,她開始活得自在愉快、展開了新的人生。

Here, Mia and I express our best wishes to Mia's sister for a speedy recovery with the article. Originally, this disease was a disaster, but because she was willing to face her subconscious truth, the disease became her life mentor, she learned her life lesson from it. After the subconscious processing was completed, she started to live comfortably and happily, and a new life.

 

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