段貞夙  老師 (Susan)

 
Why  個案心得及老師解析
 

* New! 阿卡西紀錄:療癒自卑與恐懼
Akashic Record:The Healing Of The Inferiority Complex And Fear 
2021.04
* New! 透過潛意識處理,疾病變成了她的生命導師
The Disease Became Her Life Mentor Through The Subconscious Processing
2021.02
* New! 阿卡西紀錄(解讀動物):瞭解我的寵物貓怎麼了
Akashic Record (Reading The Animal): Realize What Happened To My Cat
 2021.01
* New! 讓人生重新開機--潛意識裡來自原生家庭的制約與影響
Let My Life Restart-- The Constraints And Influences From The Primary Family In The Subconsciousness 
2020.11
* New! 阿卡西紀錄解讀:找到中年時期的人生新方向
Akashic Record Reading: Found The New Life Direction In The Middle Age
2020.08
* 不斷重複的感情模式與創傷
Repeated Patterns and Trauma About Love
2020.06
* 阿卡西紀錄解讀:找尋人生啟航的方向
Akashic Record Reading:  Search For The Setting Sail Direction Of Life 2020.04
* 害怕在公開場合說話
Fear To Speak In Public
 
2020.02
* 解決情感關係的內心阻礙
Resolve The Inner Obstacles Of Emotional Relationships
2019.11
* 阿卡西紀錄解讀:解開人生與職涯卡住的結
Akashic Record Reading: Untie the Knot Of Life And Career
2019.8
* 找到人生動力與方向
Got The Motivation And Direction Of life 
2019.7
* 自我防衛帶來了逃避以及莫名不安
Self Defense Brings The Escaping And The Unknown Anxiety 
2019.4
* 阿卡西記錄解讀:解決自卑情結 
Akashic Record Reading : Get Rid Of Inferiority Complex 
2019.1
* 焦慮與抗拒成為一個照顧他人的角色 
Being Anxious And Resisting To Become The Role Of Taking Care Of Others 
2018.11
* 莫名的潔癖恐慌 
Inexplicable Panic Of Fearing To Be Dirty 
2018.4
* 憂鬱症 
Depression 
2018.1
* 童年匱乏愛,導致偏差的愛情及人生方式 2017.7
* 焦慮沮喪 2017.7
* 恐慌症 2017.1
* 煩惱於教養孩子及創業工作
* 內在能量依賴沒長大,導致的情感與人際痛苦
* 恐懼、不敢表達、選擇及承擔---修正負面模式習氣 
* 工作及人生茫然無方向
* 憂鬱症,缺乏動力,易怒
* 情感挫敗不斷重覆
* 人際恐懼、自我封閉
* 既逃避與競爭的矛盾性格
* 暴食及人際上的不開心
* 憂鬱症,人際退縮
* 身心症狀、心悸、恐慌症
* 婆媳夫妻親子關係緊張與憤怒
* 缺乏自信,不敢承擔,甲狀腺機能亢進
* 習於逃避,婚姻不順遂
* 暴食與購物狂之成癮

 
 

*New! 阿卡西紀錄:療癒自卑與恐懼
Akashic Record:The Healing Of The Inferiority Complex And Fear

白棉花V.S.黑指縫
---可以冷靜面對他人的質疑了

White Cotton V.S. Black Nail Seam
---Being Able To Calmly Face 
Others’ Questioning



Cotton

在公司與主管互動之中,遇到對方持反對說法或理由,我就會被聲音或質疑的口氣給嚇住,好像自己做錯了,接下來就會一直處於慌張之中,很久才能平復,而且問題並不是每次都是我的錯,為什麼在第一時間總是那麼驚嚇?因為實在受不了自己這樣,於是尋求老師的協助,老師判斷不只是今生的問題,於是建議為我做阿卡西紀錄解讀。


In the interaction with the supervisor of the company, I would be intimidated by their voice or questioning when they had the opposite opinions or reasons, it seemed like I had done something wrong, and then I would always be in a panic, and it would take my time to calm down. And in fact, these situations were not always my fault, why was I always so scared at the first moment? Because I really could not stand it anymore, so I requested the teacher for help. The teacher judged that it was not just a matter of this life, so she suggested to read my Akashic record.

老師解讀我的紀錄,看到我某一世曾經是個黑奴,生長於一個黑奴家庭,註定一生當個奴隸沒有自由,從小我與母親一起在棉花田工作,有位聲音大的領班,常大聲斥責工人,還是一個孩子的我,搞不清楚狀況,會以為自己做錯了什麼,很害怕,有時領班大聲罵完,我母親被打,我傷心難過害怕,母親是我在那裡的依靠,但她卻無法保護自己,又怎麼能保護我?父親在另外的地方管理煙草,但是個性抑鬱,所以我在他那也得不到安全感。


The teacher read my records and saw that I had ever been a black slave in one of past lives. I grew up in a black slave family. I was destined to be a slave in my life without freedom. Since I was a child, I worked in the cotton fields with my mother, and there was a foreman with loud volume often rebuked the slaves. As a child, I did not realize what happened and thought that was because I had done something wrong and felt very scared. Sometimes the foreman rebuked and beat my mother, I felt both sad and scared. I looked my mother as my protector there, but she could not protect herself, how could she protect me? My father managed tobacco in another place, but his personality was depressed, so I also could not get the sense of security from him.

當時的我身為黑奴覺得天生比人低賤,討厭自己的黑皮膚,黑、髒帶給我不快樂,每天工作後,我常常會用力清洗自己的雙手,彷彿也想把這些印記洗掉…


At that time, as a black slave, I felt that I was inferior by nature and hated my dark skin. Darkness and dirt brought me unhappiness. After working every day, I often washed my hands vigorously, as if I wanted to wash away these marks. …

瞬間我很驚訝,因為這讓我突然明白了一件事情,這一世,我的原生家庭從事的行業是所謂的黑手(鐵工),小時候看到家人們指甲縫那個洗不掉的黑,我心中沒有感激,而是默默希望他們能洗刷乾淨,不要被人發現,有時會看到有人在自己的文章寫到類似的情節,然後如何的感謝家人的付出,相較於我嫌惡我的家人…我有很深的罪惡感。在我青少年時期,我刻意放棄家附近的學校,選擇到遠地就讀,當別人問起,我總是用其他的原因帶過,我的內心小心翼翼的保護這個祕密;我也試著用世俗的眼光去評比,為什麼一樣的條件下別人不會這麼自卑?直到現在我才知道這不是這一世才造成的。而且就在我寫心得的此刻回想,在做阿卡西紀錄解讀的當時引動出這個連結與明白之後,我的內心就神奇地接受家人的手,因為從事的工作,就是會黑、會髒,無關乎羞恥或是恐懼,自然也就不再有嫌棄、自卑,以及自責。


I was surprised, it made me suddenly understand one thing. In this life, my original family is engaged in the so-called black hand (ironwork) industry. When I was a child, I saw the black nails of my family members that were difficult to be washed off. I was not grateful, and even silently hoped that they could be cleaned up and not be discovered by others. Sometimes I read others’ writing similar plots in their articles, and they were very appreciated to their family for their contributions, compared to my disgust with my family... I had a deep sense of guilty. During my teenager, I intentionally gave up the school near my home and chose to study far away. When people asked about my family, I always used other reasons to neglect it, I was always careful to keep this secret; I also try to use a worldly perspective to compare, why would others not be so inferior under the same conditions? I did not know the reason until now that this fear was not caused in this life. And just as I recall the moment again when now writing my experience, after the reading of Akashic Records reading to the realization, my heart magically accepted the hands of my family members, because their jobs just will make their hands dark and dirty which is not related to shame or fear. Naturally, there will be no resentment, low self-esteem, and self-blame.

之後黑奴被解放,我到鎮上工作,遇到了當時的先生,想有依靠受保護,於是結婚生子,但先生為了自己的夢想到了外地;小時候,尋求父母的保護;長大後,尋求先生的保護,於是,我了解到我的課題之一,是一直想要有人保護我。


After the black slaves were liberated, I went to the town for working and met my husband at the time. I wanted to have someone to protect me, so I got married and had children, but my husband went to another place for his dream. When I was young, I looked for the protection from my parents; when I grew up, I looked for it from my husband. Therefore, I understand that one of my issues is that I always want others to protect me.

老師還讓我知道,那一世,我有個妹妹,與我同樣的生長環境,但個性跟我不一樣,沒有怕,願意闖,我們好像在不同世界,我好羡慕,因為她有一種我沒有的自由,為什麼她都敢去做什麼?我也想這樣子。這一世的生活中我也有這樣的手足,我卻一直忽略這在我生命中的意義。


The teacher also let me know that I had a younger sister in that life who grew up in the same environment as me, but she had a different personality from me. She had no fear and was willing to adventure, we seemed to live in different worlds. I envied her because her personality had a kind of freedom that I did not have. Why did she dare to do anything? Now, I want to be like this too, I also have such a sibling in this lifetime, but before now I have always ignored the meaning in my life.

感謝宇宙透過老師的解讀,有了妹妹的對照,讓我了解我的生命可以有不一樣發展。宇宙說,「自由不是在有人保護你之下發生,自由是你跟你自己在一起的時候發生」,「那一生的重點是你沒有跟自己在一起,你把你的注意力跟目標都放在尋求保護,這就是你靈識裡的一個課題」,「自由不是來自誰能保護你,當你自己跟你自己在一起的時候,不論階級不論膚色,其實每個生命本來都是平等,所以不需要先告訴自己你比他們弱,你比他們低賤,你比他們差,因為從靈魂的角度,靈識、精神的角度,每個個體都獨一無二,然而你要先跟自己在一起」。於是,我發現,我今生也還是一直有著這樣的心態,不斷尋找他人的保護,然而現在我相信,我是有力量可以保護自己啊。


Thanks to the universe through the teacher’s reading. With the contrast from my sister, I understand that I have other ways to live my life. The universe said, "Freedom does not happen under the protection. Freedom happens when you are with yourself.", "The key point of that lifetime was that you were not with yourself, and you put your attention and goals on seeking protection from others. This is your spiritual issue.", "Freedom does not come from who can protect you. When you are with yourself, regardless of class and skin color, in fact, every life is equal, so it is not necessary to tell yourself that you are weaker, inferior, and worse than them, from the viewpoint of soul and spirit, every individual is unique, however, you have to be with yourself first." Then, I discovered that I still had this mindset in this lifetime, constantly looking for the protection from others, however, now I believe that I have the power to protect myself.

現在,當主管質疑我時,我已經能夠平靜面對以及思考了,有時雖然還是會緊張一下,但是至少清楚自己正在做什麼,接下來該做什麼。很開心也很感謝在老師這裡又更認識了自己,也清楚自己是獨一無二,可以不依照舊有的心理模式、不被過去局限,可以創造自己想要的未來。


Now, when the supervisor questioned me, I was able to face and think calmly. Sometimes I was still nervous, but at least I am aware clearly of what I was doing and what I should do next. Through the reading from the teacher, I am happy and grateful for getting to know myself more and realizing that I am unique. I am free from the old mental pattern and not limited by the past, and I can create my future that I want.


段老師的話:
(Teacher Duan’s Words)

當我們所處的環境以及我們的對於環境的回應方式,不斷地重複、累積,久而久之就會變成我們的習慣,隨著持續的時間長度愈久、回應模式的力道愈強烈,這些有形的習慣模式,就會更深入地變成潛意識裡無形的習氣,不只帶到第二天、第二年,甚至是來世。


When the environment around us and our response to the environment repeat and accumulate continuously, it will become our habit over time. As the duration of time is longer, or the force of the response pattern becomes stronger, these tangible habit patterns will become an invisible habit in the subconsciousness more deeply, not only lasts to the next day, the second year, and even the next lifetime.

如個案Cotton所言,只要對方持著不同意見提出質疑,或只是帶著這樣的口氣時,她就會立刻當場驚嚇,猶如當機,確實讓她在工作上極為困擾。因為之前她已經做過潛意識處理了,很多生命的問題都有了改善,唯獨這種反射性的恐懼,似乎還是存在,她問了我,我判斷這應該與過去世累積的習氣有關,當然我們也可以針對這點,以潛意識探索方式回溯前世,進行處理療癒,但我靈機一動,建議直接做阿卡西紀錄解讀,因為當她在描述她的困境時,我已經瞬間自然地”感覺到”一些氛圍與畫面,但由於我還是希望以最客觀的方式來協助她,我建議就由她授權我進入她的阿卡西紀錄來解讀,於是在她同意之下,我們展開了如她文章裡所說的發現之旅,如此,確實解開了她為什麼一聽到對方大聲,就會嚇傻的謎團。當心靈深處發生了真正的了解領悟時,往往療癒就開始了,這是身心靈療癒之旅上的一種奇妙的狀態,雖然是我在幫她解讀,但是因為那些經驗與情緒,畢竟也儲存在她的潛意識中,所以我邊傳遞著這些經歷,以及宇宙高我給予的智慧建議與指引,個案通常都會有所感受與觸動。現在Cotton面對工作上當主管質疑時,已經能平靜面對以及思考了。


As Cotton said, when other person raises questions with different opinions, or just with such a tone, she would immediately be intimidated at that moment, like a crash, which really troubles her at work. Because she had ever accepted the subconscious healing here, and many life problems have been improved, but only this reflective fear seems to still exist. She asked me and I judged that it should be related to the accumulated habits from the past life. Of course we could address this point and regressed in the subconsciousness to the past life to deal with and heal, but I suggested to directly read her Akashic record, because when she described her plight, I already “channel” naturally some atmosphere and images, but I still hoped to assist her in the most objective way, I suggested that she authorized me to enter her Akashic record to read it, so with her consent, we unfolded the journey of discovery like she mentioned in the article, in this way, it really solved the mystery of why she would get frightened when she heard others speaking loudly. When the real understanding and comprehension occurs in the depth of the soul, the healing initiates, this is a wonderful state in the journey of body and mind healing. It was me to read, these experiences and emotions were also stored in her subconscious mind, so while I transmitted these experiences, as well as the wisdom advice and guidance given by the higher self of the universe, the client usually could feel and get touched. Now Cotton has been able to calmly face and think when her supervisor questions her at work.

對Cotton來說,更美好的額外的收穫是,她頓時明白為什麼過往一直嫌棄家中成員做鐵工工作,把手和衣服弄得髒髒的,當她從宇宙高我的智慧引導中,學習到有關個體的自由與力量的課題時,她不但接納了過去世的自己以及家人,也奇妙地不再自卑於此生的原生家庭,並且展開了一段自我接納與得到療癒。


For Cotton, the more beautiful and extra reward was that she immediately understood why she always disliked her family members working as ironworkers and got their hands and clothes dirty. When she learned about it from the wisdom of the universe higher self about the issue of individual freedom and power, she not only accepted herself and her family of the past life, but also miraculously no longer felt inferior for the original family in this life, and then embarked on a period of self-acceptance and getting healed.

 

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