No More "Graduation is without Job"
Since I graduated, it was very unsmooth about my job. Often a job only lasted for a few months, and then stayed home for several months. I didn’t have energy to find the next job. I was envious of my some classmates who had plans for the future. Now I am almost thirty years old. I am afraid that I will become a “Neet”. In fact, I didn’t like to be such a person, I also hope to be full of energy, but I often couldn’t get up in the morning, always delayed or late for work, very afraid of the supervisor to see my faults. Recently, a friend recommended me to see Teacher Duan’s Orlando website, I read some cases of her clients, actually, I feel touched very much. I think I want to give myself a chance.
Very wonderful, although it was the first time that I saw Teacher Duan, but she seemed to be able to understand what I said very quickly. I was relieved. At least she would not criticize me like my families or relatives. When she said, “In fact, you don’t like to be so. It’s not your intention, right?” I was touched almost to cry out. She could realize my feelings, so I decided to give myself to Teacher Duan to help me. She said that my such situation should had existed when I was a student, then I thought it was real, just because during that period of time, there were school teachers and tutoring classes, I followed what they gave me. Although in the first meeting, we had not yet done a formal subconscious treatment, I felt that there was already a kind of confidence to change.
Later, I accepted subconscious treatments several times, I realized more clearly in the process that I had never asked myself what I wanted. I had been doing what my parents and teachers wanted me to do since I was a child--taking exams, hoping to get them like me, though I seemed to not express very well. Until I was graduated from the university, suddenly I was like a fish to be put into the sea, I didn’t know where to go next. I was afraid of doing not well, my parents, relatives and all people would look me useless, so I tried to hide myself over and over again.
Fortunately, I found Teacher Duan to help me solve my heart's knots. I just started to live. Now I start to contact the world with my own identity. I ask myself what I like. In fact, it is still a little uncertain, but every time as long as I use the method from Teach Duan’s teaching, I have the motivation to get up and go out ( wow, I am not really so sleepy, the truth is my subconsciousness helped me escape from the real life with sleep!) I dare to ask questions with my supervisor. Teacher Duan said, "You can learn the work content, and people pay you money, how happy!" Oh, how could she have such an idea? but it is a really very interesting idea and make me happy. Now I go to work, at the weekend I go to study the marketing knowledge that I am interested. I start at least to live happily, and it’s so good to be aware what I am doing. Thank you, Teacher Duan.
段老師的話 (Teacher Duan’s Words)
Education is supposed to inspire people's interest in knowing self and the world, and then to find the joy and value of self-growth (I am not saying that the process of growth and learning must be always happy, but when learning step by step, once to learn what we want to understand, it brings us happiness and satisfaction). But when the long-term education in our society is only to get the scores, to enter the so-called good schools, and to find the so-called guaranteed high-paying good jobs after graduation, this social component—the individual—only follow the trend of mass value and never ask ourselves what we like and what we want. If lucky, people may get a job, but they are still often unhappy (I often encounter such clients...); if unlucky, people start to become as Alice, have no motivation to learn and full of fear about being unable to prove themselves to get everyone's affirmation, to the end, to feel useless and hopeless in life, then escape and close themselves again and again in a vicious circle.
Dealing with such cases, I would actually regress to their past growth experiences, finding the pattern of desire or fear in their subconscious, unraveling and inspiring their inner wisdom and motivation. In fact, every normal life is eager to grow up. When the inner wounds are healed, it will naturally be like a plant that wants to absorb the sun-light and find a way to the sun and start a positive cycle. I am very happy to be able to accompany Alice back to such an energy path.