段貞夙  老師 (Susan)

Think 聞思札記

* New!星際救援》---真正需要被拯救的是,自己內心的宇宙
“AD ARSTRA”---What Really Needs to Be Rescued Is The Universe within One's Heart
* New!《小丑》觀影後---被看見」 的渴望 
After Watching "JOKER"---The Desire of "To Be Seen" 
* New!《寄生上流》裡,人類的普世課題
The Universal Issue of Human in “PARASITE”
* 《玩具總動員4》的自我定義與覺醒
Self-Definition and Awakening in "Toy Story 4"
* 「善待」童年 
Be Kind to Childhood 
* 歐蘭朵FB粉絲專頁開張囉! 
Orland FB Fan Page Was Created! 
* 但願無有遺憾
Wish There Is No Regret 
* 宇宙之愛---能量的共振
The Love of Universe---The Energy Resonance 2018.4
* 南臺灣的一天 
The Day in the Southern Taiwan 
* 找出潛意識裡的 Bug
Finding out the Bug in the Sub-consciousness 
* 一直拍照、走路、發呆或頑皮的慢遊 
Taking Pictures, Walking, Dazing or Naughty in Tour 
* 森林之旅
Forest, I Am Coming! 
*  一年了---久違!好久沒放文章  2017.1
* 春天午後河濱 2016.4
* 上<史記>第一堂課後的隨想 2016.3
* 利他之行 2016.2
* 外境是內心的反射 2015.12.30
* 回到自由的靈魂 2015.7.14
* 河的前世今生 2015.7.14
* 靜止中的無限 2015.7.15
* 與大自然共存 2015.7.15
* 生活就像一粒粒葡萄
* 幻覺中的奮力---電影「啟動原始碼」「 全面啟動」
* 印度光影拼圖---電影「貧民百萬富翁」
* 動物書1---<重逢在世界的盡頭>
* 動物書2---<永遠的信天翁>
* 重返大海之謎---「水中蛟龍」展覽
* 藝術界裡的佛洛伊德---安迪沃荷作品展


*「善待」童年 Be Kind to Childhood

”Childhood”, when the word is mentioned, there may be many stereotypes, childhood seems to represent: joy, carefreeness, innocence, and full of love.

However, I have done subconsciousness consultation for more than ten years, people's childhood which I have heard and seen, although only a few are really miserable, most people’s childhood is filled with: lonely and depressed for not being recognized, desiring to and worrying not be seen or praised, feeling down from mindlessly ignore, or the inferiority from been compared with others. Even in external appearance, their families are happy and there is not much problem, even the case himself/herself, at the beginning of conversation and recall, often doesn’t feel any unpleasant in childhood.

But when the personality was branded with marks above, be accumulated again and again, then it becomes a pattern. I always metaphor that it is like boot loader, anywhere, anytime, as long as the computer is turned on, it will start up like that.

For example, lack of confidence, pursuing external performance and recognition, caring about other people’s evaluations, low stress resistance, intense competitiveness, excessively sensitive to the position of the relationship, difficulty of getting into close interpersonal relationships, and etc.

These patterns, in the process of growth, even adulthood, as long as one encounters similar situations, relationships and things,the patterns will consistently and unconsciously be provoked, copied once again, and they are further strengthened, then it gets trapped in a vicious circle.

Therefore, in the process of dealing the cases’ problems, I must start from "Childhood",
because it is the starting point of everything on the stages of life and the source of the patterns.

Childhood, has the most powerful influence, therefore, we should be kind to "Childhood."

Readers may ask: my childhood has passed, then how can I be kind to?

"Being kind" I said, is about we all should look for opportunities to regress and heal our childhood; because the childhood seems to have gone, but the energy patterns left, are still in everyone’s current progression. Reconstructing and healing the childhood energy are the foundation of body and mind health.

Furthermore, if we are holding the childhood of others, please be aware, and be kind to others' wisely. But the paradox is exactly at, when a person whose own childhood energy has not been healed, how can he/she bring a happy childhood to the next generation……


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